Thursday, July 28, 2005

Very Sad T.V.

That new Bobby Brown/Whitney Houston TV show is the saddest television I've ever seen in my life. Besides the fact that those two are just a big car wreck that you can't help but slow down in order to observe the carnage...besides that, because it's a given...their daughter Bobbi is so very, very, truly sad and troubled. She's a depressed child in an ultra-dysfunctional household, and we are bearing witness to her development as a person who will likely be troubled for a long, long time. She's surrounded by cash and material goods and cars and homes, and she's also surrounded by a family that lacks a single healthy adult. She is unbearably alone, and has no safe haven or retreat. She's the most obviously depressed person I can think of on television, and that is more than sad; it's an absolute shame.

13 Comments:

At 7/29/2005 7:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Forgot to say that this was posted by Teodoro Callate.

 
At 7/29/2005 8:12 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i second all of this :(

 
At 7/29/2005 9:06 AM, Blogger Kevlar Pinata said...

I've been TiVoing the show. Couldn't agree more. It's absolutely tragic to watch this little girl try to make sense of what's going on around her and find her place in it all. It's painful to watch parents who love their kids - I truly believe they do - express it in such a muddled and unfortunate way. Mrs. Pinata and I have winced repeatedly when watching.

On the other hand, I do love Whitney's signature phrase: "hell no!", but that hardly makes up for the other tragedy.

 
At 7/29/2005 9:20 AM, Blogger Kevlar Pinata said...

Of course, the fact that I am TiVoing the dang show probably makes me morally complict in the whole thing, which is unfortunate. I should stop TiVoing the show and spend more time watching "Hogan Knows Best".

Mea culpa. Mea maxima culpa.

 
At 7/29/2005 9:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Not having cable, I've only seen clips of this, but one clip of that poor child moping in the back of a limo was enough to make me agree.

 
At 7/29/2005 9:39 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

When i worked at Crescent Moon I was an intern on a Whitney Houston session. I was in charge of her "star list" - the items she needs via her contract. The two highest maintenance items (for me) were 1. The air conditioning had to be off any time she was present but on prior to her arrival and during her breaks so the equipment would over heat. That was kinda fun. 2. The fresh squeezed watermelon juice. That was a close one - what with all of the canned and powered type we had in the cupboards that I almost served her.

Sylvester Stalone was also there. I like him. He walked by me and do you know what he said to me? Howydoin.

 
At 7/29/2005 9:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so NOT big time.

When my parents have to have polite conversation about the son in Nashville I tell them to answer all questions like this. If they're "nobody" my son has worked with them. That turns the conversation to another topic faster than you can save 15% or more on your car insurance by switching to Geico.

 
At 7/29/2005 2:17 PM, Blogger Kevlar Pinata said...

The powdered watermelon juice really doesn't get the credit it deserves.

 
At 8/03/2005 9:04 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Would anyone care to venture a guess as to why this type of show is popular?

this is not a rhetorical question. I don't even own a TV and the great "reality" phenomenon passed me by long ago.

any ideas?

 
At 8/03/2005 9:48 PM, Blogger Teodoro Callate said...

Fascination of the abomination? Preying on other people's weaknesses? Taking advantage of other's faults that we can mock from the safety of our couch?

It all makes me pretty sad. And yet it's hard to turn away when I flip by it. I'm not proud of it. Makes me feel like I need a shower.

Maybe I do....

 
At 8/04/2005 10:36 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe you do.....


Do these shows evince wit or genuinely funny moments or is the attraction mainly of watching that car crash, whether you feel confortable doing so or not?

If so, this could indicate that society's need to absolve some inner guilt of someway by watching it played out "harmlessly" on the boob-tube over and over. Just my humble opinion.

 
At 8/04/2005 2:43 PM, Blogger Teodoro Callate said...

I think moments on these shows differ by which show...some probably have some wit to them. Some are probably about the metaphorical car crash. This show in particular is disturbing and not funny, particularly because of the depressed little girl in the middle of it.

As for society's inner guilt? My guess is it's more about society's repressed agressive impulses. Cause the stuff can be just mean. But I'm not a social psychologist. All I know is that it's very uncomfortable to watch this stuff, yet the shows are on TV because people watch them. Thus, the need to shower frequently.

 
At 8/04/2005 9:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Good to know. Now I suppose i won't have people asking me why I don't own a TV.

 

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