Sunday, October 16, 2005

Effing Great

This past Wednesday night I was teaching some med school students how to be "culturally competent" (whatever that means). It's one of my part time jobs.

During a role play, where I was playing a Jehovah's Witness refusing surgery even though I needed a biopsy, a student was (finally) doing well in hearing my concerns and negotiating his way through a difficult situation. I let him go on and on because he was doing well, and his classmates had been pretty bad up until then. So I let the kid go for a while.

When I stepped out of "role" and into teacher mode, I was praising the guy. Before I knew it, I said, "Man, that was fucking great!"

Not sure that the fine (?) students at Xxxxxxxxx University are used to hearing that. I'm kinda wondering if that'll get back to me.

Betsy tells a good story about saying "awesome" during some hoity toity luncheon with some premiere academic-types at one of the more prestigious universities in existence. Not sure if I topped her (my Xxxxxx University is not HER university), but I'm trying.

8 Comments:

At 10/16/2005 9:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am sorry, am I missing something? I don't see what the problem is, Teo

 
At 10/16/2005 10:06 PM, Blogger Teodoro Callate said...

Right! There's no problem! Where's the problem?

Oh. Well. Maybe my language wasn't quite appropriate for those institutions of higher learning with which I am involved.

Hey, I'm in psychology. I think my poor language should be validated rather than changed.

 
At 10/17/2005 9:28 AM, Blogger smussyolay said...

i don't care one wit, but i just can't imagine you doing that, teo. you always seem so chill in comparison to my potty mouth and 'everything racheted up a notch or five.' do you say 'fucking?' apparently you do. my monday is starting off swell.

 
At 10/17/2005 9:40 AM, Blogger Teodoro Callate said...

It's not that I swear so much...though I might...it's more that there is no difference whatsoever in the language I use personally and professionally. Never has been. I have, indeed, gotten in trouble for this before.

 
At 10/17/2005 9:44 AM, Blogger Teodoro Callate said...

Ah, validation.
Glorious validation.

 
At 10/17/2005 10:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

OH! Silly me! I didn't read the post very clearly! I see, it's the f-bomb problem. Well, Teo, since I teach at an institution with students of a very impressionable age (at least according to their parents) may I give you some advice if this opportunity ever comes up again. As an expletive, I say Phooey! for positive reenforcement, I say that's f-fantastic!

A colleague of ours many years ago would for the irony quote a famous line from "risky business" that she had seen on an appropriate for TV version. the line in the cleaned-up version went:

Sometimes, you just gotta say, what the f-hell!


What the Fell! became our byline for anything silly or phoney.

 
At 10/17/2005 12:18 PM, Blogger Vinnissimo said...

Teo

I think you used it quite well. I was waiting for Betsey on the call as well.

Good restraint prior and good usage hence. Two points.

Play on.

Vinnissimo

 
At 10/18/2005 9:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ahem.

There is no restraint.

Suggested future "Cultural Competence" role play: Callete as Jehovah Winess demuring the full booty waxing. Teodoro is wearing nothing but artfully arranged copies of WATCHTOWER. Safe word = Biopsy.

Q: What do you get when you cross a Jehovah's Witness with one spicy chicken leg?

A: Awesome Fucking, yet requires a mild degreaser.

 

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